Lipman uses storytelling to help kids confront problems
By Drew Morris
If he's not a singer, a dancer or a musician, then what is he? He's a storyteller,
and Doug Lipman figured this out himself only after some searching.
In 1971, he worked with mentally ill children at the Massachusetts Mental Health
Center, caring for the children's physical and mental needs.
"This is where I found myself as a singer," says Lipman, who works out of a
Medford Street office. "I tried everything with these kids. This is where
I made the connection."
(Note: I now live in Edmond, OK)
But Lipman, 45, soon found a better way to bring the children closer together:
storytelling.
As defined by Lipman, there is no correct way to tell a story. If hand puppets
are needed to get the point across, he suggests that they be used. If juggling
would help, that's fine, too. For Lipman, a six-string guitar is usually all
that is required, because he likes to mix in singing with his stories.
When performing for large groups, the storyteller says he has "an interesting
problem."
"My job is to find stories that are rich enough for the people to each find
what they need in it. To me, the way that works is if the story is pointing
them to their true self," he explains.
"I'm not making you do things. It's not coercive; it's fun. It makes a sense
of community."
In his latest project, The Amazing Teddy Bear, Lipman recorded six stories
with songs that deal with issues facing children and parent: the recession,
split families and the lack of "quality time." In each of these stories, a
child feels hurt or confused.
"The Teddy Bear points the kid in a direction where the answer will lie," says
Lipman. "It's more powerful than magically changing the situation; it's not
as empowering to the children as 'Here's a little assistance, now you can fix
it.'
"There's a real tendency for people trying to help others that they must give
an answer. It has to be specific. The role of a helper is to give the specific
help they need and no more," says Lipman.
"If you're trying to help people, give them the help they need, not the help
you want to give."
Storytelling must also make the listeners use their "active imagination" to
visualize the story as it unfolds, like radio.
"Television provides images, but with storytelling, you can form your own image,"
he says. "Storytelling is personal. Theater provides imagination and a sense
of community, but it's not personal. The actors don't acknowledge the audience.
"There's a face-to-face, open avenue between the audience and the storyteller."
It's evident that Lipman possesses the means to open up a lane, and drive straight
to your heart. And, like his greatest inspiration, Elliott Coleman, a professor
at Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore, Lipman is able to find the positive
in everything, even if it is "buried in a cloud of obscuring irrelevancies."
From The Medford Citizen, Thursday, January 30, 1992.
Used by permission.